Law of Attraction is based on the fact that we live in a vibrational universe. Your thoughts are the vibrational seeds of creation. Every manifestation was once a thought. The feelings that accompany a thought let you know that your vibrations are a match for the outcomes that you desire.

So, if you are thinking about what you want, but feeling about its absence…what are you creating? You are creating more of the lack or absence of your desire.

How can you be happy about something you want but you don”t have?
I am not called the Joy Genie because I grant wishes, but because I know how to get happy. And getting truly in a vibration of joy is one of the fundamental ways to make sure the Universe grants your wishes. This is because the Law of Attraction responds to the vibrations of thoughts, not the words. So, if you are thinking, “I really want to take a beach vacation in Maui”, but your vibration is one of lack, you aren’t sending the right message. If your emotions are a match for the empty and deprived feelings you have when you think about how you wish you could do that, you are not a match for it.

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Have you ever noticed that when professional athletes make a point or a goal that they celebrate that goal in the moment? Whether it is the dance in the end zone of a football game, or a fist pump or “come on” in a tennis match, athletes know how important it is to keep up their energy by focusing on their success. People who play games for a living know how to celebrate.

If you are like a lot of people, you don’t often spend much time recognizing yourself for your successes. You probably recognize that you have accomplished your goal, to some degree. Perhaps you also do some of these things:
* Criticize yourself for taking too long
* Tell yourself you didn’t do it well enough
* Immediately start working on your next goal

This is a problem because the feeling of success is so important for creating happiness. When you take the time to pat yourself on the back, you build up your own self-esteem and your sense of self-worth. You also spend time basking in the feeling of joy that comes from the success. You may have been taught that it is wrong to “blow your own horn” and have mistakenly believed that to mean that you shouldn’t talk about your accomplishments. Maybe you worry that others will think you are boastful.

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Where do mistakes fit in to the Law of Attraction? Is there such a thing as a mistake? Or is it time to find a new way of viewing experiences that don’t turn out the way we had hoped they would? Authors Esther and Jerry Hicks (who offer the teachings of Abraham) call experiences we don’t enjoy “contrast”. Perhaps mistakes are forms of contrast, helping us to get clearer about our desire.

Enjoying the contrast?
That’s one of the questions Abraham always asks the attendees at an Abraham-Hicks Law of Allowing workshop.Contrast is a word that we don’t often think of when focusing on things we are unhappy about. And one thing folks often have contrast about is when we think we have goofed, blown it, or “ruined everything”.

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Somehow, many of us grew up learning that we had to do a lot in order to prove our worthiness. Maybe you’ve noticed that “doing” is often about pleasing others and getting their validation that we are worthy. And, it’s really impossible to please everyone! When I finally got that I didn’t have to prove that I was good enough, I started to have a lot more fun and succeed more.

Have you noticed that when you think about something and are feeling good about it, you have lots of energy and excitement about accomplishing it? I sure have. When we were planning our family trip to Hawaii, I was so excited about it. I must have looked at the travel brochure 100 times, imagining how much fun we all were going to have. It just felt so good to think about that.

How would it feel to live each day choosing to DO what feels good and feeling good about what you DO? When you choose actions that feel good, instead of actions that prove you are good, you set yourself up for a great day.

Focus on thinking about things that feel good, and you will find success unfolding easily each day. Feelings of joy and appreciation naturally move you toward success.

Starting from a place of inspiration makes manifesting easiest, so when you are wanting to crete a new result using the Law of Attraction, start with inspiration, not desperation.

There are two things I would like to consider here. First there’s your attitude. I think you will agree that it is easiest to have a positive attitude when you believe you have the ability, or the resources to do something. Feeling worried or concerned that something might not be do-able can make positive thinking a challenge. And, if you’ve experienced failures or false starts, you might find yourself feeling a little on the desperate side. So, how do you create a positive attitude about something you haven’t been completely successful at?

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You can use the Law of Attraction to create any desire, but you MUST be in a place of cooperating with the universe. Visualization can help you to do that, if you understand the 3 steps to deliberate creation.

In order to use visualization to harness the power of the Law of Attraction, you must first understand the 3 steps to deliberate creation.

A lot of folks have focused on visualizing as the key to creating results using the Law of Attraction. Visualizing is a great tool, but maybe not for the reason that you would think.

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